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Tuesday, September 14, 2010
When you’re shaking your family tree, a few nuts are bound to fall. However, sometimes a few skeletons fall also. I’m wondering, do you say “Hey..look at this skeleton bone that just fell” or do you dig a hole and bury it never to be found again?
When I say never, I mean, only to be found by the next person in your tree looking to shake it a little.
Everyone has a big secret in their family tree. Some directly related to the person doing the researching. Does that give you a right to make the secret known or do you wait for permission from all parties involved to blurt it out?? Some secrets can change the dynamics of an entire family. What do you do with this information???
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
|Me and my cousin/best friend.|
What is a successful reunion?
- Everyone arrived safely
- We didn't run out of food...not even for the late arrivals
- Everyone had a great time
- Everyone enjoyed the change!!!
I think the family was ready for some change.
This year, we held the reunion, not in traditional Elizabeth City, NC. But in Orlando, FL. Nor did we hold it at the usual 'last weekend in August' that we have had it just about every year. I moved the date up about 2 weeks to correspond when the kids were still out for summer break. We had just over 100 people in attendance. Which is awesome. Granted when it's in Elizabeth City..we have more. But, a good majority of our family stays there. So, being at the reunion is not a traveling event for them. I was happy that we had a great turn out at this year.
Many people took advantage of turning the reunion into the summer vacation. Being in Orlando made it easy!
Now I need to a vacation to recover!
Monday, August 2, 2010
So, about the picture…
My daughter and my mother are pictured above on their way to visit their roots. My mother was so exicted and my daughter seemed miserable. I mean, what a mean mom she has for sending her on an all expense paid trip and her getting her passport stamped before me!!
Of course, there roots are my roots too, but I didn’t get a chance to go. Way to expensive and I can't take that much time off from work. But, this was an amazing opportunity for my daughter to go and visit relatives in Ethiopia for a month over the summer. They went to Mek’ele in the Tigray region of Ethiopia.
As you can see the look on my daughters face..she’s wasn’t looking forward to the trip. In all honesty, she didn’t want to go. But, I told her that she didn’t have a choice. She wants to travel and traveling isn’t always going to be spa and resorts. Plus, she going to see family. What 12 year old gets these kinds of opportunities? As good experiences go, I think this one was perfect for her.
So, for a month, she stayed with my aunt (my mom’s sister), uncle, great grandmother, and 8 cousins. She got to see that simple luxuries like…underwear was a complete anomaly to her female cousins. Not that they were poor, it just wasn’t something that they wore. She got to see that her 12 year old cousin does just about everything that her mother. All the cooking, cleaning, even child rearing. A far cry from my American child who grumbles over just washing dishes.
Not so surprisingly though, she really enjoyed herself. Stereotypes that she left home with faded away. (she said, “it’s not as hot as FL..actually, FL is hotter!”). She was able to see London for a short time (“People really sound like that… “)
All in all, even though sending her sent mommy into the poor house temporarily, I’m glad she was able to get the experience she did. When she’s 20+, she’ll be happy about it too. But as a pre-teen…she’s just annoyed again…
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
This is a repost from the Carnival of AA Genealogy. I wanted to help spread the word.
What is FreedomTweet 2010?
- Tweet about FREEDOM using Hash tag: #FreedomTweet
- Drive folks to Twitter.com on June 19th to *tweet* at least once answering this question? What does FREEDOM mean to you?
- June 19th ALL DAY! Throughout the day, tweets will also be streamed to FreedomTweet.blogspot.com
- Given that FREEDOM is subjective, FreedomTweet is open to EVERYONE! We all can identify with being and/or desiring to be liberated from something, right?! FreedomTweet is for the entire community!
- Yes! Starting today through June 12th genea-bloggers should write about the history of Juneteenth and promote other celebrations happening across the country! If you write a post about FreedomTweet and/or Juneteenth, please email us at CoAAG2010@gmail.com and provide the URL!
Anything else we should know?
We MUST get the FreedomTweet message viral -- using all our collective networks to circulate the news! With a community effort, we could easily see several thousand folks hitting Twitter.com on June 19th all around the theme of FREEDOM in observance of Juneteenth!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Although I missed the Carnival of African American Genealogy the past few months..i wanted to write on the one that seemed easiest… Grandma’s Hand: Grandmothers and their influence on the family.
Mine comes from a different perspective. More tragic for those who want to know their family I suppose.
Many of you know that I have been in search for my grandfather, George Washington Bolden. He would be my father’s dad. However, trying to find him has been one of the most difficult searches to date. Maybe because he’s closer to my heart than the more distant ancestors. I don’t know who he is, but I would love to. I see the pain in my father when the subject comes up. He disparately wants to know who this man is. What child doesn’t want to know their father? Just think about all the siblings, nieces, nephews, aunts, etc that he doesn’t know. Who knows..maybe we’ve crossed paths and had no idea.
But, this is how a grandmother, a mother can change the course of your family and it’s research. That traditional relationship of grandmother and child escapes many of us in my generation. Maybe due to distance or cross words between cousins. Maybe it’s due to jealousy of how one grandchild is treated compared to others. Either way, the relationships we have are very different than those I’ve observed.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
I've been able to get my blog pointing back to http://blog.spence-lowry.com. I don't know what I did to my DNS...but I jacked it up. Now it's back working..WOOHOO.
So, new developments. I've been asked to be editor of the Family Research Society's quarterly newsletter. I'm currently the webmaster for their site. But, being editor..WHOA. I know I won't have the time. So, the president, Sharon Gable, suggested being co-editor with the current editor. Hmmm..that could work.
Family research has been slow lately. Kind of hit roadblocks with every turn. I hadn't blogged about them because I keep hoping for the 'AH HA' finding to write about...so sad.
Planning the family reunion is TIME CONSUMING to say the least! I'm doing it alone and there is alot to do!
I know I've missed several of the Carnival of African American Genealogy!!! Ugh!! I hate that! I swear I can't find time in my day *cries*.
About Mount Carmel Baptist Church. My first thought for the church was how upsetting!! That has been the church that many of my ancestors and current family members were raised. I have uncles and cousins who are deacons at that church.
Then on the flip side, the family researcher in me just kept thinking..WHAT ABOUT THE RECORDS????? *sigh*. Unfortunately, when I spoke with the secretary last year, she said that she didn't know about any records. I was hoping to find information about Great Great Grandfathers sister, Cora Alphenia Howell. She got married in that church in 1955 and hoping to find more information about her. I know she had children and one daughter was named Inez. *sigh*
Who's ready for the 2012?? I'm ready to see the 1940 census!!!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
We're experiencing techinical difficulties at the moment. Apparenlty, I jacked up my DNS settings for my domain...*le sigh*.
So for the meantime, I'm back on .blogspot until I get it fixed and back to my normal site. Don't change anything. ;)
Sunday, April 25, 2010
No one was injured in this early morning fire. However, the church building appears to be a total loss.
Fire destroyed a 147-year-old church in the Newland community of Pasquotank County early Sunday morning.Link
Fire officials weren’t sure what sparked the blaze that completely gutted Mt. Carmel Missionary Baptist Church on U.S. Highway 158. The Elizabeth City Fire Marshal’s Office is investigating.
Robbie Whitehead, chief of the Newland Volunteer Fire Department, said passers-by notified emergency dispatchers about the blaze about 4 a.m. Sunday.
By the time firefighters arrived a short time later, the church was fully engulfed in flames, Whitehead said.
The Newland VFD, joined by firefighters from the South Mills Volunteer Fire Department and the city of Elizabeth City, battled the flames for more than an hour, bringing the fire under control about 5:30 a.m. Approximately 50 firefighters responded, Whitehead said.
By noon Sunday, all that remained of the brick church was a smoking hulk. The church’s menu-board sign announcing Sunday services and a gold-painted bell, both of which sit in front of the church, were not damaged.
Right now, fire officials don’t have any idea how the fire started or where in the church the blaze began.
“When (a fire) becomes fully involved, it’s hard to tell that at this point, Whitehead said.
Whitehead said firefighters had spoken to several of the church’s deacons, and none had any idea how the fire might have started. Church officials told Whitehead that parts of the church were at least 147 years old.
There is nothing right now to suggest the fire had suspicious origins, Whitehead said.
“Right now the investigation is going on,” he said.
Fire investigators from the Elizabeth City Fire Marshal’s Office visited the fire scene earlier Sunday and are expected to continue their investigation today, Whitehead said.